Is Your Perfect Woman a Babe or a Nurturer?
Do you search for the woman with the Bambi eyes, luscious lips and gorgeous body? Perhaps you are looking for an intelligent, humorous and sultry woman. You probably realize that good looking and sexy are not necessarily synonymous. I have been told that some women exude sensuality. It rises from them as a hormone-stirring, mind numbing vapor.
Regretfully, I cannot reveal the name of the person who told me or under what circumstances I was told. I have also been told that a woman either “has it” or she does not. One cannot dash to Saks Fifth Avenue and purchase a bottle of simmering sex appeal.
“I’m tired of all this nonsense about beauty being only skin-deep. That’s deep enough. What do you want, an adorable pancreas?” Jean Kerr
Are you searching for a beautiful, independent, maddening Babe or a loving, compassionate, devoted Nurturer? The results from one survey indicate luscious lips or curvy hips frequently tempt even the most stalwart of men.
A study conducted by Dr. Dan Ariely of MIT suggests that men who see a beautiful woman experience the same “reward” brain response that is elicited by food and cocaine. It appears that men may be “wired” to respond to beauty. Fortunately, men also come with, at no additional cost, the most advanced version of the neocortex. Consequently, when you are trying to decide which woman you should pursue, the brainy PhD or the stripper, pause for a moment of somber contemplation. The brain can be exceptionally useful when used to make these minor life-changing decisions.
Why don’t you take the test and determine your kind of perfect woman – the devoted, intelligent Nurturer or the stimulating, earthy Babe type?
Choose the “trait” that is most important to you from each pair.
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